I am 16 years old and being treated for depression and anxiety disorders. I have social skills problems but it is not Aspergers. It looks similar to that though because I am rude when I don't mean to be. Basically all the problems stem from lack of impulse control and especially lack of being able to see my self and have self awareness.
I don't know what my tone or volume of my voice is or what is rude unless its too late but if I saw someone else behaving this way I would be able to recognize it easily as unacceptable.